Oh I understand that, it's just that some of her fears are just a bit illogical. For instance she hated the idea of me joining the ambulance service because she thought (amongst other things) that I'd be more likely to be assaulted. In fact I've had less people try to hit me while I'm out on the road (there are more places to run away too than in a hospital.) She has however gotten over those thoughts, and I know she is going to find out about this bike, so she'll have to get over that as well.