Even though I loathe and detest spiders and I used to think killing them was the only way forward - as I've got older I feel rather guilty for killing them. If I can't get anyone to remove it then I do actually have to have a go at killing it as I just can't stand to not know where they are. In the last few years I have found myself apologising to them afterwards just in case fate takes a turn for the worse and I come back - as a SPIDER!!!