Many people who are obese are not eating like that, and it still doesn't make a difference. Just as there are brittle diabetics who do all the right things, and still lose limbs and die of kidney disease. Not being healthy is not a moral issue. All I ask is to imagine yourself in their place, have compassion, and not judge. That is a moral issue. It is still ok to hate to have to deal with the consequences, as I do, every day. It is ok to educate and try to deal with nationwide obesity issues. But the ones who top a ton are not *just* out of diet control- that kind of morbid obesity has to have a huge genetic component.