My position remains the same, so perhaps I've sugared my articulation of it. Drawing the line between behaviour that is "merely" self-indulgent or stupid (or both) and behaviour that is so grossly self-indulgent, etc. as to be constructive mental illness, and identifying the factors that enable us so to do, is probably where we differ. I remain as judgemental as ever (and anyone who disapproves... well, aren't they being... judgemental?).