Amen. I WISH you had succeeded in making her feel guilty. She certainly IS guilty. What a crappy mom. Poor kids. I wish you had said the rest to her, but she most certainly would not have heard you. Immune to criticism, or information. Keep trying to teach, you never know when you might get through even the thickest skull. Even the Doc who ragged on you, but that is even more unlikely. He probably smokes, too.