As a survivor of CSA, I can understand this dilemma, a kid of 15, twisted and out of his mind due to probably continual abuse, doused with drugs to numb the pain of having his childhood robbed by an animal or animals who creep the Earth robbing the innocence from little boys, and girls. People who rant and rave about childhood sexual abuse cannot even really understand the hurt we really have to face, as a boy, who has to be so strong in the World, I lost my childhood at 11yo raped of my innocence. That was 40 years ago, but I never carried on the cycle of abuse. When a child has psychological boundaries taken away by force and made to do degrading acts against his/her will, it really has a profound effect on their will to survive. They are taken away from their innocent beautiful minds, into a World of darkness and despair, nobody but nobody can really understand the deep despair a kid goes through. This kid, should not be given a chemical cosh, he needs serious help, unfortunately, there are not many therapists who know how to really deal with such tragedy, yes he is a survivor, and he needs so much help to reassure him that his life is worth living. I can say to any reader who cannot understand this. Be me for a day, when I was 11yo, and I don't think they could stand being in there. Witness the hurt, be the child who is no more the child, his childhood only exists through hurt. When I was abused, I really thought I was going to die, but then again, maybe I did, because they steal the very soul of little kids. Essentially, they do kill off the little kid, so he grows into a man, he has to invent so much of his life through the perception of the abuse, and really not knowing really who he was meant to be. The dynamics of male child abuse is seriously misunderstood, because little boys don't report it, and there are so many reasons for that. Think about this scenario, a common one but nothing to do with my abuse, as I was raped by a stranger, but imagine a boy, who befriends a man, and the man coerces him into oral sex, the boy will never see it as SA, even though it was, why? Because he may have enjoyed it, so he will not tell. The man is at fault here, because he groomed the boy, but the boy becomes the victim, he takes all the blame, the phrase in the kids mind will always loop around and say. I enjoyed it, so I must have wanted it. The man then goes on to do even more degrading acts, the natural relationship of a child so young is twisted in his mind, he expects pain in relationships, he never evolves to be the adult he was meant to be. My main emphasis is on the male perspective here, as it is so much harder for a boy to report abuse, because they know that the perp can always say, hey why were you so hard if you did not enjoy it, this is they key thing that sticks in the kids mind. The kid will never think, hey, even though I enjoyed it, it can be seen as abuse, but it it, and it haunts many abused boy throughout his life. If you want to know more visit www.malesurvivor.org and see just how much they F**k up lives