I don't know but I wouldn't call that an abuse She didn't say "You just did that because you are white" did she? It was just the other day when I was sitting on a bench and a young black bloke stopped in front of me: "Hi sweetheart how're you doin, fancy a good time?" I didn't answer - not because he was black - obviously - and he said "hey are you not talking to me cos I'm black hey?" Sorry but it is known that black people tend to say those kind of things all the time and sometimes it makes me think they've got much more problems with their colour than we so I'd just ignore it if I were you, mate, it is stupid I don't think they'd appreciate your work less because you are not black like them that's rubbish. I don't think you should worry about that comment and the black lady's behaviour was just stupid (throwing yourself on the floor like a child to get treatment how silly can one be?) The guys in the waiting room couldn't tell she was faking it so it's their fault not yours! You also said it was a teenager saying that so actually you should be able to ignore it shouldn't you?