It's a tough call, being an ambo. I love your blog, and fully appreciate the daily frustrations you must endure at times. With this couple, it seems they just hadn't bothered to to the first basic thing you do when a couple first gets pregnant the first time - read, read and read some more about it! Don't be in the dark! Their ignorance must drive you a bit potty! Perhaps it was just a translation problem, but still... D'oh! hahaha. Thanx & Cyalayta, Mal :o)