well, I'm a mere five years older than "teenage", and I've hit frailty several decades early, and while it's been drummed into me due to the sort of work I used to do that if I don't answer forms and doctors *honestly*, then I won't get the help or treatment I genuinely need, I still cope with more and do more than my family and friends really want me to. Please don't tar all young people with the same useless/lazy/good for nothing/feckless brush.