Abby I can't imagine how terrible it must be to have these b*st*rds camping on your doorstep .... but to look on the (slightly) bright side, I'd bever heard of you before. When Tom posted this I checked out your blog, read a few posts and then ordered your book from amazon. We have a lot in common and I know I'm going to enjoy it! Remember - your REAL friends won't say a thing. Chin up - next week it'll be someone else's turn. Hopefully the worst is over for you already.