Abby, I'm not a reader of your blog but I just wanted to let you know that you've got my support. The media coverage you've been given is unfair and nasty. And if any guys in the future think you're a slapper then they're rubbish. It doesn't sound like you've done anything that most gals don't do. And at some point in a relationship you come clean about these things (in my experience that's a third or fourth month chat). You're just going to be honest up front -and isn't that preferable? For you I mean. No more worries about how the 'chat' will go. You're an honest feminist. Men (not all but plenty of them) aren't going to like you. And sadly men are the ones who're in power. I love what you said in the interview. I wish you would do more interviews with interviewers like Zoe Williams, someone I'm also a big fan of. I don't think there are many more journo's like her though.