I an not surprised to hear your great news Tom as you have been dropping hints!!, I could detect something was developing and so pleased!!! My hubby Rob & I met when we was nurse training (Learning disability) we lived next door in the nurses home, We have been married 26 years!! and still in love!! we like you conquered shift patterns, recently had heart probs, and he has been my backbone these last 3months, so Tom & Laura all the very best 2 u both, just take it slow, joan