That's up to you, but I assure you lots of people don't think they'll be good enough mums. And usually, they do just fine, because they're the ones who are bothered enough about making the effort to be a good mum. Whatever you do, best of luck. What we're talking about here are people who think having a baby is all about having a tiny baby to dress up and show off, and then get confused when it turns out that unlike their other toys, a baby needs 24/7 care and can't be turned off or put in the cupboard or given to the nearest charity shop. I hope I haven't overstepped the mark here, if I have I'm really sorry.