Holy Cow. I'm glad I had my wisdom teeth out under general anaesthetic in the good old days. My Mum (she's a late developer) had a wisdom tooth out recently at the dentists and he had a similar struggle to yours. Our dentist is Polish (as in 'scale and Polish') and after hearing it would be a 2 year wait to have the hospital remove it he decided to have a second go and took it on as a personal challenge. He won in the end, but my Mum sure didn't feel like a winner afterwards. You certainly have her sympathies. Watch food doesn't get caught in the hole or you'll have real problems.