That is so infuriating. I worked in one of those daycares for a while in college and I really never understood why some people think that just because a person is old they need to be bullied around. True, some elderly have dementia and need extra help, but many are still autonomous. It is so sad that many people don't see our elderly as people. I was just reading an article the other day about sex in nursing homes and how it was totally discouraged and could lead to major trouble for the patient. I was so mad when I read that because what right does any adult have to tell other adults what to do?