Tom, I want to thank you for portraying not only such a moving post, but a heartfelt and brutally honest one. Having been unfortunate enough to be the little sister under similar circumstances it is sometimes forgotten that alongside grief rides a whole heap of anger. Never change or be ashamed to blog how you feel and never apologise for being honest and saying what's in your heart. This is what makes your posts unique and your words worth so much to so many. Vikki.