Tom, I've oly ever had nightmares about these jobs. Never had to deal with one in real life. I dont't know how you deal with it and hope I never have to find out I cried for two days when my friends dog died, a kid would knock me sideways. No matter how accustomed you become to death it cant be easy with a wee one. Hope this does not cause any of you to loose sleep. Despite the outcome it sounds like everything that could be done, was and without meaning to sound crass was what we call (tentatively) a good job. Sleep well, and keep it up.