I can really relate to this. But my dad has major cancer surgery and had the stroke the day after that....obviously he was older than 35 but its still life changing. It was harder for my dad to recover from the stroke due to the massive operation and he was in hospital for 3 months. Luckily his speech wasnt too badly affected but the movement he never regained. We had carers in 4 times a day etc and my mom looked after him 24/7. Sadly my dad passed away in april, as the cancer returned and he had another stroke which just affected his face the day before.