I had a long hard think about what I could write here today, but there is very little else that can be said really, there are different ways of saying it, but then at the end of the day in our society, not just in the UK but all over the world there are very evil people, some of whom hide behind the guise of "culture" but that is all there are; very evil people. I haven't had the experience that Tom has had with that particular job, but you have me thinking now, have I been to a similar family, and just taken it for granted that they are blood relatives...? its a very scary thought Tom, and by us missing this, are the abused now thinking of the ambulance crews, why won't they help? are we just feeding the abusers lies that the officials are out to get them?