The only words my father has spoken to me, in 12 years, is "Two, please". This was a response to the question "do you have suger in your tea still?" at my grandfathers wake. My grandfather was the man that raised me and my stepdad has been the man my children call Grandad. Remember it only takes the 10cc of genetic material to be classed as a Father, but a lifetime of being there to be a Dad. Happy birthday for when ever it may be.