MAN. Talk about HARSH. If I were that lawyer, I would've never carried out that final act of cruelty. I am SO SORRY that happened to your husband, chairwoman, but so very glad that he had you there to love, support and comfort him, when it did. Tom - I'm glad that you felt safe (?) enough to share that story with us. You're a good man (and you don't need affirmation from any of us on that one), nothing like your dad. I'm sure that if we all could, we'd give you a great big hug (and some smashing pressies!) for your birthday. Hopefully that will be some small consolation on the day.