Why oh why do so many want a reflection of them selves , of wot they see in the [distorted ] mirror; Every human is unique , and we keep on trying to make silk purses out of sow's ears. Marriage is a myth along with other expected standards. I just be lucky that I found a soul mate, so lucky. Not all Men be stags or stallions, some be like the swan that appears to mate for life. Not all females are Mothers. nor should they be. approx 80,000 gene groups that create our wonderful diversity. Aesop said it well, when he came up 600 fables. The one I like be the frog and the Scorpion. then there is the dog in the manger. Some Humans be Hyenas, jackals, and cuddly bambis along with all the other variations. Guggenheim press allowed people to realize that many have differing thoughts that do not agree with the standard mantra. Now we have the Internet for people to find like minded people. Unfortunately so many think as Frank S who sang " do it my way." We have five external senses that must be pleased, because the bio feed back sayso, The only think I ask for, do not hurt others while you enjoy your grey matter. More than three score plus years ago I realised that I ain't going to please every one so I do my thing hoping that wot I does, will not hurt any one, but I will use my Australian Queensbury rules if any one forces me to do it their way.