I love cute little signs, and I have three of them hanging in front of my desk on the wall so I get to look at them most of every day. They say:- "Life isn't measured by the number of breaths we take, but by the moments that take our breath away" "My favourite thing is to go where I'v never been" "The cure for anything is salt water: sweat, tears or the sea" I often say to people who are dithering about making decisions that life isn't a rehearsal it IS the real thing, they may only get one go at making that decision they are dithering over. Sympathies to the family though of that poor man you went to.