Do we *know* she's a "poor girl"? When I were a lad, I met a few girls of twelve or thirteen who are keen and (in their minds at least) ready to be sexually active. So although it would be rape in the legal sense, it may have been entirely consensual and loving. I'd agree that it's probably not the best lifestyle choice on her part to be churning out babies at that age, when she could be getting educated and having a career out there... but some people really do just want to be housewives. So, yes, this *could* be horrendous child abuse, but it may also be that she's having exactly the life she dreampt of. Don't presume!