matey: be true unto thy self: You can never please most people, only a few, " as birds of a feather do get together", world survives because of the differences " vive la difference " Only hind sight will be your testimony to your choice of being right. We all play a roll but we seek verification as what it should be [ and most times you will never be verified by thy acquaintances], and usually you will never know, its in genes . From an old man in his dotage, I never could have guested that I would be here now , having failed the elementary test of school, or going up so many blind alleys, having left school at 13 to sail the seven seas only to be put in an institution of learning , then jumping in and out of fox holes sleeping in trees then sleeping and eating gourmet in the Ritz's of the world, life is always full of "surprizes' , just enjoy them or Carpe diem. as that Bard on Avon did say all the world is a stage and we be players thereupon, slurping all the way to sans eyes, sans teeth and sans every thing. "Do your thing" you have helped many people and you will succeed. Let it all hang out, as long you do not hurt the innocent. best of luck [whatever that is] this moment of clapping thine eyes here, be the start .